Friday, June 14, 2013

Reluctant Reader

"Graham!  Buddy, I got you new books at the library."

"Are they audiobooks?"

"No, they're books... with pages and words and pictures."

He's not impressed.  He shuffles through the stack and walks away.  I decide not to push.  He'll hate reading even more if I continue to shove it down his throat.

An hour later, he looks at the stack again.  He grabs one book.   I offer to read it out loud while he makes block towers for his little brother to knock over.  Maybe he can have a special treat when we've finished the first chapter.

He rolls his eyes, but begins to stack blocks for his brother to demolish.

"Troublemaker," I read the title.  "Andrew Clements."

I hear the girls both say, "Frindle!" in the other room and decide they must be speaking Whovian or something else based on their sci-fi language of choice.  They slowly inch their way into the living room as I read.  The 16 year old holds up her electronic tablet as if to give the impression she's just joining us for the comfort of her favorite leather chair.  The 13 year old is less subtle and laughs out loud as I read through the first chapter.

"Woo.  That chapter few by.  Should I read another one?"

The girls suddenly find other things to look at, too cool to want their mother to read to them.

"I'll listen" sighs Katie, glancing up from her manicure.

We read on.  Blocks tumble.  Kids laugh.  I secretly pat myself on the back and add a hash mark to the "Good momma moments" column on my mental score sheet.  Lately I've struggled to feel like I deserve any marks on that side of the tally.  We predict what will happen next.  We imagine how characters feel.  We agree it's okay to use the word jackass if you're reading it as part of a story, even if you giggle so much you can't read.  We guess what would happen if the principal of our Catholic elementary school found a donkey picture that looked like her.  We wonder what Clay did with the $10 Mr. Kelling gave him.

Four chapters later and we have to move on with our day.  The book floats from one set of hands to another.  At bedtime, Graham snuggles next to me and asks if he can read to me.  Let me say that again - my 9 year old, who struggles with reading, who frequently refuses to read at all asks to read to me.  Thirty minutes later, I tell him he's done a wonderful job, but he needs to sleep.  We'll have to see what happens to Clay and Mitch in the morning.  We talk about them like they're real people.

We wake up to a gray day.  I find him curled up in bed, working his way through another chapter.  By lunchtime, he's read two chapters by himself and I have to beg him to let me have the book long enough to catch up.

The baby is napping now.  The house is quiet.  Graham has built a fort in the basement with pillows and blankets stolen borrowed from his sisters' room.  He found batteries for his Cub Scout flashlight and he's continuing to read.

Andrew Clements may have just changed our entire summer.  He may have just created a reader.  He has definitely found new fans and another grateful parent.

Thursday, June 6, 2013

Facebook Status... Farewell, School Year from Hell

Dear 2012-2013 School Year: Thank you for allowing me the time to watch my children grow, take control of their own futures, and develop a greater sense of responsibility. Thank you for their increasing sense of humor, wit, and dry sarcasm (most of the time.) Thank you for offering them teachers who challenged them and teachers who gave them the opportunity to learn to respect adults even if they are difficult to relate to. Thank you for giving them a chance to learn to apologize for poor choices (Marilyn, Graham will never, ever dance on a table again, I promise!). Thank you for giving them the grace to forgive my many, many momma-flaws. But mostly thank you for letting me find moments of joy among the frustration and moments of grace in the midst of the chaos. Now, please tell 2013-2014 that we're taking it by storm and it has been put on notice! Sincerely, Momma Bear

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Summer Schedule... a Work in Progress


So here's the first draft of our summer schedule.  Not a lot of bells and whistles, but I find the more simple things are, the most likely we are to use them.  I made it from a old cork board, frames from the Dollar Store left over from a Cub Scout project, and clip art I found in Word.  I definitely need to find thinner dry erase markers and it needs some sort of title... but it's a start! Our next step will be to add a list of summer rules, but the kiddos are going to help come up with those.


Saturday, May 4, 2013

Six Month Photoshoot

It's about time I posted these.  After spending far too many hours on Pinterest looking for props and ideas for our 6 month photo shoot, I shared my findings with our photographer.  She did a fantastic job of working with us for more than two hours.  Connell was a trooper and the results are adorable!  These are just a few of my favorites.  Mudpies N Butterflies was truly great to work with.

Now I have to start looking for photos ideas for our 12 month shots!  







Monday, April 29, 2013

Rainy Days

David is out of town.  There's some kind of Ruby on Rails conference in Portland. (Ruby on Rails always makes me think of Dorothy chasing down a train... little red slippers click-click-clicking away on the tracks.)  Anyway, I always find myself feeling like my left arm is missing when he's out of town.  This is what I'm doing to survive day 1.  The baby is sound asleep in the car, the drive thru Starbucks chickies are starting to know me by name, the wifi reaches the driveway, and the rain is lulling me to sleep.

Friday seems really far away.

Saturday, April 27, 2013

Smoothies and Frozen Fun!


At nearly 9 months old, Connell has decided he's going on the typical baby hunger strike.  Initially I was concerned, as I always am when my kids go through this phase.  However, with the lovely new baby food guidelines allowing yogurt, I decided to see if I could sneak something other than breast milk into my teething munchkin's diet.

Today's smoothie ingredients.  They vary all the time.

 I seldom, if ever, take the time to measure things while cooking for the family.  Why do anything differently when it comes to the baby, right?  So I can't offer you exact measurements.  But I can tell you it's wicked easy.  

Combine:
  • Two big spoonfuls of whole milk yogurt (Stoneyfield Farms Organic Whole Milk)
  • Half of a very ripe banana (the riper the better)
  • Handful of frozen berries 
  • Roughly a quarter cup of whole grain baby cereal (Earth's Best is my favorite)
  • a half jar of something green (homemade works, too!)
  • and enough white grape juice to make it smooth 

(Note:  Freeze the other half of the banana and jar o' green for future smoothies.  You can freeze the rest of the juice, but I don't usually bother with that.)

Toss it all in the Baby Bullet (purchased at a consignment shop for half the retail cost.  Woo!  A blender would work just as well.).  Whirl until it's smooth.  Watch for pesky frozen berries that refuse to cooperate.

Toss it in.
Blend until smooth.

Pour into two cups.

 This usually makes two smoothies and as long as they're kept in the fridge, they will last for two days without a problem.  My favorite smoothie cups are the Take and Toss Straw Cups by The First Years.  The straws are nice and wide, which accomodate the slightly thicker texture of a smoothie.

See?  Smiley babies LOVE smoothies!  

Now, I know not all babies willingly use a straw.  Connell is a little unusual in that regard.  So here's another way to get the goodness of a smoothie into your happy little hunger striker:


Munchkin makes great molds with rounded handles, perfect for little fingers.  I highly suggest offering this treat on a hot day and right before bath time.  They're great for teething, too.  We've had success with freezing left over smoothie and homemade applesauce.

Other smoothie options:  mango, peaches, spinach, green beans, peas, avocado, carrots, prunes, apples, sweet potatoes... well, you get the picture.  Anything goes!

Enjoy!

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Sweet 16

On the eve of her 16th birthday, Jillian looked at a crying Connell and sighed.

"I don't know how you put up with this all day."

"What?"

"The crying and holding and whining."

I wasn't sure how to explain it to her.  Her life experience hasn't taught her the giving end of momma-love.  So I tried.

"You were like this.  And every second was worth it.  I mean, you're pretty amazing, right?"

"Eh."

"Oh shush.  You're amazing.  I think so.  Dad thinks so.  Your aunts thing so.  It's common knowledge.  So I manage the crying and whining and holding because I know the end result is worth every gray hair."

My Bookends playing dress up.